Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Thanksgiving 2012


The things I’m thankful for… there are so many… I already know I will forget some, but here goes…in no specific order…(like the beauty pageants)

1.      I’m thankful to call Lincolnton my home.  This is more than a house to me… it is home.   Just about everything of importance in my life happened in this small town.

2.    I’m thankful for my parents.  I’m thankful for their honesty and their loyalty.  I never once doubted how they felt about things I was doing in my life…and I never once doubted that they would always have my back in any situation.

3.    I’m thankful for my brothers… they love me… they still pick on me and tell me my butt is big… and I talk too much… and I do this and that wrong… but we talk… I realize how lucky I am to have that relationship with them.  I couldn’t ask for better nephews and nieces too! 

4.    I’m thankful for the girls I grew up with… I couldn’t have lived life without wanting to be with them every day… I wanted to a great cheerleader like Connie, have Tara’s personality, be tall like Nikki, be quick-witted like Amy, be pretty like Lisa, sing like Lawana… I was also lucky enough to love being around Ben and Jamie all the time… they saved me many a night in Statesboro!

5.    I’m thankful for Mark’s family… they make me laugh until I cry… and I really think somewhere along the way we are all kin because we think too much alike!

6.    I’m thankful for God’s grace… He has given me way more than I deserve.  I have two beautiful children who aren’t perfect… but in my eyes… they are the best!  Refer back to #2…I do the same thing to them! 

7.    I’m thankful for Mark… that boy I met 21 years ago amazes me every day… I love that he protects our family of four…wants to make memories with just us… and truly cherishes the little bit of time we have together.  I also love him for letting us move back to LC!  I used to think it was corny to renew vows… but wow…after having children…those vows I said… I had no idea how true they were at that moment… I need to say them again!  Maybe Hawaii???

8.    I’m thankful I moved away for eleven years.  I met the sweetest friends on earth.  I learned to survive on my own.  I learned to appreciate the good life back at home.  And most importantly, I learned that life goes on in other places besides LC.  I couldn’t have survived without Staci Howard, Wendi Lawson, and Donna Hembree… you were my stand-in mamas while Mark traveled…. KB wouldn’t be who she is today without ya! 

9.    I’m thankful for simple things… walking the streets of Nashville this week…and being in San Diego and New York this year… I realized that simple things aren’t common… electricity, food, clothes… I am blessed… I know it!  I’m also glad my children have seen it… they know there is poverty. 

10.  I’m thankful for family.  I thankful my granddaddy was a mayor, school board chairman, and post office worker  ( I learned I can do more than one job at a time).  I am thankful I am named after my grandmother… I hated my name growing up… Rachel… ugh… but I’m proud and I smile when people call me Boo now!  I ‘m also proud of my big butt and legs… and fat hands… Granny will never be gone as long as I am alive.  I’m not happy with my skin that is just like James’s, but I am still proud to have a part of him in me.  

11.  I’m thankful for new friends… friends that love facebook as much as me…they just don’t update like I do.  Friends who are willing to drop anything to help me.  Friends who treat my children like their own.  Friends who know when I need someone…and when I need to be by myself. 

12.  Finally, I’m thankful for challenges… as hard as it is to write… I am!  I learn so much from them.  I’ve learned to bite my tongue, not judge until you wear someone’s shoes, and find that silver lining in everything I do.  I’m still looking for that silver lining in the cloud that is over me right now… my Edu. Specialist degree graduate work that is taking up the majority of my Thanksgiving Holidays… but I know it will show up… it has to… It always does! 

 

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