Saturday, February 10, 2018

Fourteen Years!!!


It's been a great year!  I love everything about this age!  I love that you take longer than Sis or me to get your hair just right, I love that you get frustrated when you make a bad grade, I love that you give 100% at everything you do, and I love that you love with all your heart... a true ladies' man!  HA!

You brought your self-portraits home the day we got out for Christmas holidays, and I immediately saw Butch... As much as you are like Daddy, I see Butch in you every day!  You constantly pick, you constantly ask questions, and you constantly keep me on my toes!  Literally, I had a heart attack yesterday when I walked into my office and as I sat down and you grabbed my leg because you were hiding under my desk.  I'm sure everyone thought it was a mouse as they came running... but no... just Ben!  It's who you are!  





 In April we went to the Masters and had a great time!  You continue to fight on the golf course with all your might... and I'm so proud you haven't gotten frustrated and given up! 
 You think you are big too.. driving around and moving cars and making sure everything is lined up just right... a little OCD!
You have finally been invited to play golf with the big guys... keep pushing forward... only a couple more strokes and you are going to beat Daddy! 
 The worst part about moving is not seeing  Jamesy every day... but he got to spend a week with us at the beach this summer and we had a blast! 
 You remind me of Butch, but you also have so much of Guille in you!  This picture right here looks like him to me! 
 You have become obsessed with fishing... we even had to go back to the beach this fall just for you to get to fish some more! 
 You all have finally reached the stage where you are taller than Jane.... I love that you ask her if she is shrinking!  NOPE... it's you!  Your pants for Christmas are already too short... You have some junk in your trunk like your mama, but it's okay! 
 I love that smile... you make my heart happy!
One of the few naps you have ever taken in your life!  Exhaustion had set in!
I can't leave out the deaths of two VERY important men your life this year.  You lost your Butchie and your JMAC.... I'm sure you learned lots from both of them... good and bad!  You have been a strong little boy that has dealt with death better than most.  I love that you talk about them... I love that you miss them daily... and I love that your aren't afraid to ask questions!  For the rest of your life remember that you were loved beyond measure by these two men!  
Clemson games are your favorite... whether it's football or basketball or baseball... you are always ready to go!  

Let's hope in the next few weeks we hear from them about letting Sis in.... I'm sure you won't mind going and chaperoning her on the weekends! 

We were all a little apprehensive in August when the eclipse came through... there was total darkness and you shared that experience at the office with me... y'all enjoyed your day out of school for it!  

 You have followed Sis around this cheer season... I'm not real sure how I'm going to handle her being gone next year, but I know that is going to be an adjustment for you. 
 I never dreamed a boy and a girl so far apart in age could get along so well... you argue sometimes, but I also know when I go to bed at night that hearing your laughs, giggles, and concocting plans makes me smile! 
 I'm sure no matter you will have each others' backs! 
 We loved going to the ACC Championship this year... you experienced obnoxious drunk fans and continue to say you won't ever be like that!  I pray that's true!  I'm so proud of you for taking on the task of reading your Bible in chronological order... You are a much better summarizer than me.  Keep it up! 
I know you are sad you don't ever have to sit through another cheer competition!  
 I'm also guilty of that little sweet tooth you have... We love a little piece of chocolate and a dessert at a restaurant!  NYC was the best! 
 I hope you two will be as close as you have been this year!  And that we have many more airplane rides together! 
 And who knew you would be shaving this year!  That little brown caterpillar across your lip had to go! 
 Christmas in Greer...
Celebrating Sis being 18 and you being almost as tall as me! 


We brought in 2018 with family and friends... OH what fun it was!  

This next year will be busy....

Golf season kicks off Monday... I can't believe that SC lets 7th graders be on a varsity team!  

Let' hope we have many more nights of Breakout!  You probably could create one of those rooms yourself!  

 As we get ready for you to end 7th grade and be an only child with Sis leaving home... I hope that you both remember to look to the SON... those rays beaming down on you were beautiful and I'm sure they were from Poppa and Butch...
Thank you for being Ben... just plain on Ben!  
 And my final pictures are two that bring tears to my eyes... Butch playing  basketball... You scoot up and down the court just like I've heard he did... You are fierce and not afraid of those 6 foot players... and sometimes you have just enough cockiness to be dangerous....
This is you checking in for your first middle school game this year... I could hardly take the picture for the tears in my eyes... I wanted to call Butch and tell him about you... tell him about the points... tell him well you played... but I have to believe that he was there .... and so was Poppa... they are angels among us!  

I love you Bennie Boo Boo... Stay the course and it's going to be hard to top this year, but I pray you will change the world!  

Love you!  

Tuesday, January 2, 2018

Cheer Season 2017

 All good things must come to an end... one day you will look back on the memories made during cheer season and see that cheering isn't really the favorite memory.... it's the friends and fun you had while doing it. 
 Cheering on Friday nights would have been your choice... you love the game of football... you got it honest! 
 But... on Tuesdays and Saturdays you hit the mat to perform for 2:30!  I'm sure that Daddy and Ben are going to miss this next year... almost as much as you! 

 I love a homecoming parade... fun on the float! 

 Your banner... only senior, but that's okay!
 Gift bags for the girls...


 Just when I think you might have that big bow in your hair for the last time...
 Senior night...
Friday night lights!



 State Cheer Competition
Cheer banquet with some sweet, sweet girls!

Monday, January 1, 2018

New York City




For as long as I can remember, Mama always wanted to be in New York City at Christmas.  Many people worry about their parents drinking too much, swearing too much, or overeating... Mama... she is addicted to Hallmark Christmas movies.  She won't even talk to me on the phone if a really good one is on!   She forgets she has a pause button and dvr!  As the holidays were approaching, I knew we needed to do something a little different this year.  Daddy would have been so proud of Mama spending a little piece of money to make these six smile the way they are.  I couldn't help but think of him every time I saw a hot dog stand, heard a siren, or walked by a news station.  He was there with us in spirit without a doubt.  I'm sure with all 13 of us going we could have 13 different stories, but I will try to cover for them.  They each commented on what they liked and what they would go back to see again.  Needless to say, this was the trip of a lifetime that we will always remember.  We also didn't fight or argue the entire trip... I did get a new nickname on the trip, but some things must be kept secret!

Mama didn't have to go through the same line as us for security, so she may have been a little lost... I told her to stay where she was and not to move!  

 We all headed to Charlotte to spend the night on Saturday night.  Other than a few gunshots when we were trying to get a dessert, we had a great night as we prepared our nerves for flying!





Cole figuring out if he wants to pilot one of these planes one day! 


 Juju and KB all smiles on the airplane.  This was Ju's first flight and she has nothing to be scared of anymore.  It was wonderful, smooth, and no problems.  


You can almost see all of us... except Mark... he flew by himself behind all of us.  We figured since he does it every week almost... what would hurt to fly with a stranger this time too.  Our flight attendant loved us... he gave Ben and James all kinds of snacks... Mama and I got a special kind of coffee to bring home... and I found a bag of chocolate bites in our things too.  I had never flown United before, but they were very nice!  They give really good discounts for groups too!  





This was us flying into Newark and the Statue of Liberty in the distance. 
Pictures from the window as we flew over Manhattan.  

After we landed, we took AirTrain to NJ Path to Penn Station in NYC.  It was an experience that we all are glad to have had... but we really don't have to do that anymore!  

We checked our bags and headed to my favorite place to eat... John's Pizzeria.  It's in an old church, and they make delicious pizza and salad!  We usually eat here at least twice when we go, but we only made it one time!  

Our next event was heading to our bus tour to see the Uptown part of NYC.  We were able to see all the usual landmarks and even the barricades for the upcoming parade.  I haven't done it yet, but I am going to write a letter to the tour company because the guide told political jokes and was very disrespectful in some of her comments.   We won't use this company again... even though the night tour was spectacular!  We got off at The Plaza to use the restroom and grab a quick snack!  

 Jim had no idea what he was eating, but he said it sure was good!
We ordered crepes and watched them make them!  My crepe was Nutella with bananas and it was DIVINE!  Remember that a good trip is determined by the food you eat! 

 Once our bellies were full, we headed back toward Times Square.  There is nothing like entering St. Patrick's Cathedral and hearing the organ.  We actually went twice to the church.  The first time they were having a service in Spanish and none of us could understand.  There are really no words for the church... it's beautiful and needs not one decoration.





 Lighting candles in the church....
 We headed for our night tour after visiting the church.  This route took us to Brooklyn and all around the downtown area.  It was gorgeous at night!

Someone was lucky enough to get under the cover for the ride!  It was SO cold!  

 The boys sitting together!
 By 9:00ish we were starving!  What better place to go than Juniors for burgers, sandwiches, and CHEESECAKE!  We went back the next night and just bought an entire cheesecake for our room because it was so good!
Our first day in the city was wonderful... little did they know that we had lots more planned!  

DAY 2

 Monday we headed to Jim's request- the 911 Memorial.  It was freezing cold, so we looked at it like Chevy Chase did the Grand Canyon.  Actually, it was very peaceful and calm.  It was quiet, it was memorable, and no matter how many times I've been I am touched by this place. 
 We were looking for the Survivor's Tree.  It has grown since I was there last...


 The WORST tour guide ever... I was not happy when I heard him start talking! 
 The Flatiron Building...
 Walking through Chinatown and looking at the "live bait" on ice!  UGH... smelled awful! 
 And while this may look like a small drug deal going down... it was really my family making deals in Chinatown.  They loved Ju and Janice... and of course Jim and Cole got in on the action too!
 While they were dealing... we took several pictures! 
 A close up!
 KB and Ben were not impressed with the deals and were patiently waiting to find a bathroom. 
 We made our way to Trump Tower that night and of course we all took the opportunity to get our pics! 
 Our last stop of the night was the Empire State Building!
 Mama and the girls~
 Jim's family on the ESB
 View from ESB!
 Mama loved her chance to be by the TT!
 Cole and Jim while we were "viewing" the Statue of Liberty.
 JU JU!!
 Julianne's request was to ice skate at Rockefeller Plaza.... She had so much fun, and we had fun watching her!

 For lunch on Monday we went to a GREAT restaurant in Little Italy.  It was the best food I have ever had (besides my favorite John's Pizzeria).








 Outside Rockefeller Plaza


 My three walking the streets of NYC!
 View from the 911 Memorial

 We also went to see the Rockettes on Monday. I think we would all agree this was our favorite of everything!

 Sis has it in her hand! 

 James wanted to go in the NFL store!



DAY 3

Tuesday we started at the Museum of 911 Memorial... this was a free ticket that I thought would be a complete bust.... but it was one of my favorites!  There was a presentation by a firefighter on duty that day... we saw lots of remnants from that day and our children were able to learn about an important date in history!  

 Somebody got a special necklace from Tiffanys! 
 And that's her jealous aunt in the background!

 We ate lunch Tuesday at Black Tap... the burgers were good.... but the milkshakes were great! 



 Tuesday night will go down as my most embarrassing moment ever.... I waited for Broadway tickets and for 13 people the best thing was SpongeBob or Miss Saigon... I'm not a history buff... but I thought that everyone would like it better than the alternative... Miss Saigon was very informative on all levels... the little boys got quite an eyeful.... and I didn't have to wear blush for the next day because I was still embarrassed! 

 I thought we better fill their brains with something besides all that trash in Miss Saigon, so we went to Ripley's.... I know these are weird little places, but for some reason we like them...


 Back at Tiffanys...  I wanted to tell the rude little sales clerks that they were the ones working... I was the one with the money, but I didn't....

DAY 3


 And for our last day.... we spent it at Madame Tussauds, which is so much fun.... Gulliver's Gate...Virgil's BBQ... Bryant Park, and Grand Central Station Whispering Wall....rode the bus to Newark Airport.... and had a complete show of drunk man who was not going to make it home for Thanksgiving because United kicked him off the flight.... I loved watching it... just like Live PD!



 Mark was hot in the airport... he acts like he is in his living room or something















 Mama at the M and M store...



































We had the trip of a lifetime and loved every minute!  I would love to be a travel agent when I retire if I get to go on the trips I plan!  :)